Eye Gaze device trial: Tobii C15 with CEye

We've been working on a method of communication with Emma for a loooooong time now!  We have a variety of approaches - picture cards, hand gestures, iPad, looking at things, etc.  Most are initiated by someone other than Emma.  I've been looking for a way that Emma can initiate conversations, tell us all the good things going on in her head, and let us in on all her jokes because this girl is usually smiling and laughing!

This year at school we have a huge focus on her expressive communication.  Emma started using some scanning programs on a Dynavox and took to it pretty quickly.  I talked about it in this post.  Some drawback to this method are that it takes a long time to do the scanning and there are some challenges because of Emma's double whammy of hearing loss and poor motor control.  I have always thought that an eye gaze system would be a good option for Emma.  Last year we had a trial with the Dynavox with Eyemax eye gaze communication device and it was a disaster.  Make that a DISASTER.  I had high hopes going into the trial and came out feeling pretty defeated.  While there are many people out that that use and love the Dynavox eye system, it was not a good fit for Emma and so we kept plugging along with our various communication approaches.

I belong to a yahoo group of Moms with children with CP and a few of the children are doing quite well with the eye gaze systems so I didn't give up on the idea of eye gaze for Emma.  There were good parent reviews on the Tobii CEye and the PRC Echo2 devices so I talked with her SLP at school about wanting to try the eye gaze devices again.  Yesterday, the sales rep for the Tobii came to school for Emma to trial the Tobii CEye device.

I was reserved about the trial.  I remembered how excited I was for the Dynavox trial and I didn't want to be disappointed again like I was before.  I decided to go in with an open mind and see what Emma wanted to do.  No pressure on her or me.  Right off the bat the sales rep. impressed me.  He spoke right to Emma, gave her his business card first and then handed them out to the rest of us, asked her most of the questions.  Emma took to him immediately.  I'm sorry to say that it's all too often that people don't include her in the discussions just because she can't speak.  This man respected her as a person and knew that she was the most important person in that room for the trial.  It was very refreshing!

Emma tested the Tobii C15 and the C12 device.  The Tobii C-Series family of devices are "portable communication aids for text and symbol based communication, computer access and environmental control.  They are easy to set up and use, have batteries that can be replaced without having to shut down, feature side caps that can be changed and much more." (all items in quotes on this post are from the Tobii product literature)  The C15 device has a 15" screen, the C12 device has a 12" screen.  That is the main difference between the two.  Both were outfitted with the Tobii CEye, an "optional eye control module for the Tobii C12 and C15.  Accurate and precise tracking, works with most users, largest trackbox on the market."

What is an eye gaze device?  "Eye control is an alternative and complementary input method to using a mouse and a keyboard.  By looking at a screen you control the mouse and you click by blinking, dwelling (staring at the screen for a certain length of time) or using a switch."  The computer has a touch screen so you could also access it with your hands and we also tested where Emma would use her eyes to pick a box and then we would click the switch to select that box.

I have to say that it was super easy to calibrate the device for Emma's eyes.  It took about a minute!  I was very impressed with the Tobii for that reason alone.  After testing out several options, it seemed that Emma did the best with her eye gaze and a dwell time of 1.2 seconds.  We navigated through several screens.  There was a screen where she could pick a book she wanted to read and then it opened up and she could select the pages to have them read out loud.  She did great with that!  Here is a small video of her and the books that I took the second time she chose to look at books.  We had been working on the books for a while so she was getting a bit tired when I finally realized I should take some video.  The volume is low because she previously was playing music with the machine and her eye gaze and the volume was super high for that program so we had to turn it down.



We also had a screen where it looked like a storybook page and a child in a wheelchair was sitting at a table with his friends.  There were bubbles on the table and presents around and Emma could use her eyes to select items.  When she selected the bubbles with her eyes, a grouping of options filled the outside perimeter of the screen.  She then "played" with her eye and selected a few of the options.  One was "blow lots of bubbles", so her SLP blew bubbles for real.  Then she chose "let me blow bubbles" so we let her try and blow them.  She did a few other things, such as comment "this is fun", on this page and it really seemed to capture her interest.  It was a nice way to interact and I could see this as a great tool for actual activities in the classroom where we take photos of the kids and put them in the scene and Emma could call out her friends names, tell them to blow bubbles, etc.

Another thing she did during the trial was look at some flash cards.  We would ask her where is the *animal* and she would look at the screen and use her eyes to select it and then the device would speak the name.  We only had one card up at a time, but you could put several up there and ask her to select matching items, odd one out, etc.  I think she would have a lot of fun with this!  Here is a little video of her with the flash cards, again she was a bit tired when I pulled out the video camera but she was still participating!  The blue dot is what her eyes are looking at, in case you are wondering how to tell where she is looking.



We also tested out a fun little dice rolling page.  It is a random dice rolling generator we could use for things like playing a board game as a family.  Emma could use her eyes to roll the dice and then the dice outcome would pop up on her screen and we could then move her piece.  We could likely even put a command on that page that says "Can you move my piece?" or "Your turn" or "My turn".  I can see some really good options for this page!  The nice thing about this, too, is that we could use our fingers to select the dice roller and just use the device to play without needing actual dice.  It would let us interact with Emma a bit more and wouldn't put her as the odd one out.

Emma was really on a roll for this trial and so we put up a music page.  Emma could pick between different music and turn it on to play.  The rep then danced (see, I told you he related well to Emma!) until the music halted and she had to select more music to play for him to dance again.  He suggested this was a good page to play freeze dance with her classmates.  Emma seemed to really like this page, and it was a bit similar to Simon Says that I programmed onto her iPad that we would play sometimes.  It just seemed so much easier for Emma to access the screen with her eyes than accessing it with her hands.

The trial lasted for about 1.5 hours.  Emma was distracted for part of that time, but not as much as I would have expected.  I was happy to see that she was interested in the activities we were doing on the screen with her and she attended to them for a long period of time!  After all, 1.5 hours is a long time for a 4 year old to pay attention to something.  It's also a long time for adults, but we were all so into the trial I didn't notice the time going by.  Emma did so well that it was wonderful watching it all unfold.

So, where do we go from here?  The rep. suggested we rent the device for a month through insurance instead of asking them to pay for the device right away.  It is hard to get these devices paid for through insurance and he said there is usually better acceptance if insurance does a month's rental first.  The monthly rental is very high, and the device price is even higher.  I looked online and found our state's AT lending library has the older version of the device Emma tested available for an 8 week loan period.  I think we might want to start with that while we get the ball rolling with insurance.  I also think we might want to test the ECO2 device to make sure we are ordering the best one for Emma.  Insurance won't pay for another one for a long, long time so we need to make sure we order the best device for Emma.

Once again I'm excited about the possibilities for Emma's expressive communication.  I always thought her CIs would mean that she would talk, but maybe her way of talking will be different than I expected.  Maybe she will talk with a computer.  I am at a place right now where having her talk, in any way possible, is exciting to me.  I am excited for her, excited for her future.  I still remain positive that Emma will use her voice one day for communication, but until that happens we are pursuing other options and so far the eye gaze device we trialed yesterday seemed like the best option.  The future seems very bright, indeed!

Craigslist Find

We have a loaner power wheelchair for Emma that is not working.  It hasn't worked since we moved and I have not been able to successfully troubleshoot the issue.  I'm not sure if it stopped working right before or right after we moved, but the fact is that it isn't working.  So Emma is not getting any use out of the chair and isn't learning to drive it.  This is soooooo frustrating to me.  I spoke with the fabulous Denise at our wheelchair clinic and she told me she would take a look at it if I can drop it off.  The main hurdle in dropping it off is we don't have a wheelchair van to transport it.  And we didn't have a long ramp to use in lieu of the wheelchair van.

About a month ago I put a Wanted ad on Craigslist for a wheelchair ramp that was at least 7' long.  I sort of forgot about the ad (and kept trying to figure out a way to get the chair serviced!) until I heard from someone who was willing to sell me an almost-new-exactly-the-same-ramp-I-was-eyeing-up-on-the-internet ramp for $100.  This is a great deal since an 8" ramp with an 800lb. capacity cost around $500 new.  The ramp was in two pieces - you can take them apart if you need a narrower ramp - so I had to put it together for our use.  It cost me $0.66 for the screws at Home Depot to put them together.  The only hiccup to the ramp is that the ramp wouldn't go together without the handles in the up position.  I suppose this makes the handles a bit quirky but it doesn't pose a problem for our use.  We now have a ramp that I can use to put the power chair in the van for service and that we can use as a ramp for the back door to our house.  I'm thrilled and hope to drop the chair off at the wheelchair clinic this week.

Here is a photo of the ramp in use at our back door.

I love it when we are able to make something happen for Emma that doesn't break our bank!  I'm looking forward to putting this ramp to good use.

Dear Santa

Julia is very excited about Christmas this year.  She has seen some commercials on tv that really caught her attention - this is new because she has not watched tv with commercials until very recently.  She heard about Moxie Girlz on tv and hasn't stopped talking about them.  It helps that they have a bajillion commercials during her favorite show, Horseland, to market directly to the little ones.  I thought I'd share her letter to Santa this year as I just love it!

I love how she remembered that Santa eats the cookies and milk we leave out for him.  We haven't talked about that at all this year so she remembers it from the last few years.  Also, when she was writing this she asked me is that all? after she talked about the cookies.  She didn't want to have any more small talk with Santa and wanted to get right down to the details of what she wants.  After she wrote Love Julia she decided she needed to tell him that she has been a good girl so she wrote it in above her name.  At this age she isn't concerned about having all her words go in a line so she finished out her sentence by putting Good Girl on top of the I've been a.  She added a heart, flower, and some special santa symbols for him.  Love this letter!  I love how she wrote it herself and only had to ask me for some of the spelling.  My girl is growing up.  She even used a period after the word cookies.  She is very excited to put this in the mail to him and I just had to capture it for me before it's sent off to Santa!

Julia wanted Emma to write her letter to Santa tonight, but we are leaving that for another night.  Looking forward to Emma's letter.  I have to figure out how to go about writing one for her.

Tis the season!  Let the fun begin!

Week of Thanks Day 6

Today I am thankful for:

• Getting together with young "old" friends
• Easy hot lunches
• Scooter riding children
• Wii games
• Holiday decorations
• Conversations with neighbors
• Selling unused stuff on Craigslist
• Finding things we need at a good price on Craigslist

Until tomorrow...

Week of Thanks Day 5

Today I am thankful for:

• Warm weather days in late Fall
• Twinkling Christmas lights making the evenings merry
• Photos so we can go back and remember special, ordinary and everything in between moments
• The towel service at my gym.  It's such a nice feature of the club!
• Waking up without an alarm clock
• Homemade Christmas crafts - pulling them out each year and remembering the years all over again

Until tomorrow...

At Longwood Gardens yesterday Emma couldn't contain her laughter and Julia saw no humor in the situation.  

Week of Thanks: Thanksgiving

I didn't get a chance to write my post yesterday.  We hosted Thanksgiving dinner this year and I roasted my first turkey.  Everyone seemed to enjoy it and for that I am thankful ;-)

I am thankful for:

• Our house filled with family on Thanksgiving.  It's a great holiday made wonderful when everyone can come together as a family and have fun.  
• Everyone was in good health this year.  We had no hospital visits even for routine things like therapy or CI mapping sessions.  I love having a normal, dr/specialist/therapy free week!
• The food we had on our table.  This year we participated in several food drives for those who are struggling to put food on their table.  We will continue to participated in regular food donations outside the holiday season because so many people are struggling and getting good food and nutrition shouldn't be so hard.
• At the beginning of our meal we went around the table and talked about what we are most thankful for.  I loved listening to everyone's responses and it makes wonder if the people in the store lines on Thanksgiving are missing out on the true spirit of the holiday season.  

A little bit about my day (because in the future when I go back through my posts I'll wonder what the heck we did for this Thanksgiving day).  The morning was a gorgeous 57 degree day and Chris took the girls and Brianna to the parade in the morning.  They went for hot cocoa afterwards.  Then they came home after the parade - but I was still watching it on tv!  They were at the beginning of the parade line and the dancing/tv cameras were at the end of the line and so there was about an hour difference in the time they were done and the tv cameras were over.   Their favorite part of the parade was watching the cheerleaders who were dressed up as reindeer do their cheers.  I think the hot cocoa was a top second favorite!


While I had the house to myself, I put the turkey in the oven and set the tables.  We had an adult table and a child table and both were set with my china.  The children's table was set with the dishes from my grandmother because I didn't have enough of my own china.  I loved that we used both sets of plates!  It was very easy to prepare dinner because everyone brought a dish or more and my oven was dedicated to the turkey and stuffing.  When most people were here there was a pick-up game of football outside.  The adults and kids played, Emma cheered them on while in her KidWalk and I think it ended up with a tie score when it was time to come in for dinner.  After dinner Chris showed the video from our Ireland vacation and it was fun to watch together.

Then it was time for a talent show.  Julia did her Irish dancing - she's had about 5 lessons so far and is doing great!  Brianna showed off some of her Karate.  Emma really wanted to get in on the action and Julia reminded me that Emma can pull to stand when she holds my hands now - a recent skill - so we had Emma do her standing a couple of times because she just lit up with all the cheering for her.  My heart melted at how Julia remembered that so we could include her sister - she is an amazing big sis.  How lovely to see the kids show off the talents they are working so hard to achieve!  The evening wound down with some games on the Wii that really woke everyone up.  I think my neighbors might even have heard all the ruckus from the games and we wouldn't have it any other way.  My niece Rebecca decided to stay over and after everyone was gone and the girls were in bed we headed over to the movies to see Breaking Dawn.  I was surprised to see the shopping area near the theatre so filled with people before we remembered that the stores were opening at night on Thanksgiving.  Ugh!  We made it to the movie and it wasn't too crowded.  When we came out around midnight there were huge lines outside the stores and we were happy to be headed home to be.

What a great way to spend Thanksgiving!  Best wishes for a wonderful Thankgiving to you.

Until tomorrow...

Week of Thanks Day 3

So, no video post today.  I completely forgot to bring it up today since we were busy flitting about and now the girls and their cousin Brianna are all cozy watching a video and don't want to be disturbed.

Today I am thankful for:

• Sleepovers.  Last night Julia "sleptover" in my room while Chris slept in her room.  It was great bonding time and I got to have some wonderful conversations with her.  We also love when any of the cousins sleep over.  The girls have so much fun with them!  And it does my heart good to see Emma hanging with them as just one of the girls.  They completely accept her for who she is and usually argue over who gets to move Emma to and fro - so cute!  
• Family dinners.  My pumpkin pie is baking in the oven and making the house smell delicious.  I am excited to host our dinner tomorrow and make my first turkey ever.  Fingers crossed it comes out good - but I have lots of gravy in reserve just in case!  Family dinners also mean everyone brings a dish making it less work for the host and lots of fun for everyone.  
• My helpful husband.  I'm beyond thankful that we found each other.  Who would have thought I would meet the love of my life on a dating site so many years ago!  We are still so in love with each other and everything we've been through the last 7 years has only brought us closer together.  I'm also especially thankful for his help today in getting ready for tomorrow along with him taking the initiative to clean the toilets - he's a keeper and he's all mine!  
• Home videos.  Chris has been working on our summer vacation video and it's so nice to look at the video and remember our amazing family vacation to Ireland.  It was incredible to have the entire family together in Ireland.  I'm not sure if it will happen like that again, but I sure am thankful we have the memories and videos to remind me of that magical vacation.
• Giggling girls.  Right now I am listening to three girls giggle in the other room.  It's the best sound in the world.  

I'm off to see what all the giggle are about and hopefully join in the fun.

Until tomorrow.....

A week of Thanks day 2

At dinner tonight we talked about what we are thankful for:  

• Chris is thankful for our health
• I am thankful that today was the last day of school/work for Julia and Chris and now we are all off and plan to spend a lot of time together
• Julia wanted to know why she is going last but said she is thankful that we are getting to spend Thanksgiving dinner with her "whole" family.  I mean whole family.  Like, everyone is coming here.
• Emma was in an ornery mood and decided to whine through the conversation.  I know she is thankful for a lot, but I think she would have been more thankful if we called dinner over and put her down to bed.  

I suggested we take a movie of us all talking about what we are thankful for so I could post it on her tonight.  I had no takers.  Emma even cried at the suggestion.  Maybe I'll suggest it again tomorrow only time it much earlier in the day.  

I am also thankful for cars that work, hide and go seek giggles to end the night, and girl nights.  

Tonight me and Julia are having a girls night.  I'm about to bring our tea up into my room so we can snuggle in and watch the Dancing with the Stars finale before we settled into bed.  Chris agreed to spend the night in Julia's room so we can have a full on girls night.  This is a better set-up than our last girls night when I slept in her twin bed with her.  I am thankful for a great husband who is swapping beds with Julia for our girls night so my back won't hurt for another week after our girls' night.  

Until tomorrow....

Giving Thanks

In honor of Thanksgiving, this week I'm going {to try} to post each day on things for which I am thankful.

Today I am Thankful for:

• A healthy finish for Chris' marathon yesterday.  Two people died in the Philadelphia marathon and I can't stop thinking and praying about that.  I'm so thankful that Chris met his goal of completing his second marathon this year and I'm also thankful that he is taking a bit of a break before planning another one ;-)  Which leads me to.....
• I'm thankful for lazy Saturday mornings with my family.  Sleeping in, hot breakfasts, pumpkin coffee, playing in PJs = weekend bliss!
• Our family.  The love and support they give us is amazing.  We are so blessed!
• Being a stay at home Mom.  Every day is a challenge.  Every day is different.  I can't remember the last day I "stayed at home."  I am so thankful that I'm getting this time to love, nurture, and spend quality time with my children.  We are all better for having this time together.  
• Our new home that fits our life right now.  The schools the girls attend.  The progress we are seeing with Emma's communication and the self-confidence we are see in Julia.  

More tomorrow.....

Holiday Prep

This year I'm trying to get a jump-start on the holidays.  I've been making lists for crafts to do with the girls,  lists for Santa and family gifts, parties we want to attend, get-togethers we want to host.  Yesterday we dressed up and I took some photos to start working on our Christmas card.  I'm also starting to wonder what we are going to do for Julia's birthday party in early January that she asks about every day.  She is definitely more excited about her birthday and party than Christmas, but don't let that fool you because her list for Santa this year is getting pretty long!  With all this planning I'm hoping I'm not as behind as I usually am for the holidays - fingers crossed.   

We are hosting Thanksgiving dinner this year and it will be the first time I'm making a turkey.  Since the turkey is generally the start of the show on Thanksgiving I'm hoping it will be a whopping success.  If not I'll just add extra gravy to save the day!  I'm still working on the menu but I'm planning on keeping it pretty traditional - turkey, stuffing, cranberries, potatoes, veggies and rolls with pie for dessert.  Emma has off the week of Thanksgiving and Chris and Julia have off on Wed, Thurs, and Friday so I'm looking forward to the extra time with them.  I think it will be nice to have some help on Wed, too, to get the house and food prepped so we don't have to do it on Thursday.  

When I was younger my Dad always took me and my sister to the Thanksgiving parade in town and I have so many memories of those days.  I vividly remember how there wasn't a store open, not even a convenience store!, that day and no bathrooms to relieve our tiny bladders.  As the years went on McDonalds started opening and we were able to get some hot chocolate to warm us up after the cold morning at the parade.  These days things are different with so much open on Thanksgiving and I have mixed feelings about that - it's nice to have the convenience, but not so great that so many people aren't home with their families.  This year (weather permitting) Chris is planning to take the girls to the parade!  I'm so happy for them and hope they love it as much as I did, especially the finale when Santa and his elves make an appearance.  Having them at the parade will give me a bit of time to cook a turkey and other fun stuff at home.

I found a few crafts that I'm going to make with the girls.  In the past we had projects we tried to finish all in the same sitting.  They usually ended up with me finishing most of the projects after the girls were d.o.n.e.  Lately I've taken to presenting the project we are going to make and spreading the steps to complete it over a few different craft sessions and Julia was amenable to this change.  This change has make crafting with the girls much more enjoyable for me.  I'll post photos of the projects as we complete them.  

Veteran's Day

Today is Veteran's Day and I'd like to say how truly thankful I am to all the men and women who served or are currently serving our country.  The sacrifices you make are so truly humbling.  Thank you for your service.  God bless you and God bless America!

I'm also reminded today of the effect Veterans have had on the disability rights movement.  I'm not sure if many people are aware of this, but it was the WWII vets that really started the disability rights movement.  Some came home disabled and wanted the same rights they had before they left.  Others came home and had children, some of those children were disabled.  Their generation said they fought for their country and they were not about to put their disabled or mentally challenged children in institutions.  It was their strong spirit, their willingness to fight for their children's rights, that started us on the path we are on today where people - old and young - with disabilities now have protections within the law.  And for this reason veterans have a very special place in my heart.

Thank you for all you have done and continue to do!

Faith

I've been thinking of my theme for this year - Faith.  Faith that all things are possible.  Faith that I am exactly where I am supposed to be on my life journey.  With a little over 7 weeks (yikes!) left in the year and with Thanksgiving coming up, my mind is spending some time reflecting on this year and I find myself often coming back to my theme of Faith.

I have to confess that there were parts of this year when I didn't always kept the faith.  I wasn't sure that Emma would make as much progress as she has.  I wasn't sure she would ever give a consistent Yes/No response.  I wasn't sure she would participate in her new school program, that she wold make gains in her communication skills, or that she would figure out a way to walk in her KidWalk again after her growth spurt.  I tried to keep the faith that she would make all these goals, I really tried, but sometimes my mind would just not stay on board.  And I would worry.  Of course I wouldn't let anyone know that I had anything but 100% confidence in Emma, but silently I sometimes felt a little bit of doubt and then I'd feel some guilt at my doubt.  And then I'd notice a few new gray hairs and knew any worrying just wasn't a good idea ;-) and that I had to come up with a plan of action, because nothing comforts me better than a well composed plan of action!

It sometimes took the additional gray hair to remind myself that the theme I chose for this year is Faith and my plan of action was usually to practice it more, flex my Faith muscle so to speak.  Over this year there were times when my faith was at a high and others when it was at a low.  I think this is normal for me and actually think it's probably normal for most people.

I know that I've come a long way on my Faith journey this year.  I rarely need to "borrow" faith from others these days.  I spend most of my time believing that all things are possible and that I am spiritually and mindfully exactly where I am supposed to be on any given day.  At this time of Thanksgiving, I have so very much for which I'm thankful.  And I have Faith in what the future holds.

Sesame Place

There is a wonderful amusement park in our area called Sesame Place.  As the name implies, the theme of the park is the tv show Sesame Street.  Characters such as Elmo, Zoe, Abby Cadabby, Bert, Ernie, the Count, put on shows, make character appearances and star in the closing parade.

But this is not an ordinary park;  this is a park with heart.  Every year they team up with Variety - The Children's Charity and close the park to the general public in the spring and the fall and invite families that have children with disabilities to come and have fun.  And they do this for free.  The only cost is for parking and all that money is donated to the local Variety chapter so they can continue their work dedicated to promoting and protecting the health and well-being of children around the world.  Amazing generosity!

We have attended several Sesame Place days with the girls with the most recent even this weekend.  It was a beautiful sunny, cool Fall day and the park was the most crowded I've ever seen.  Chris' Aunt Mary Lou works there and she told us they sent out 15,000 tickets and I think the turnout must have been close to 100%.  Emma's favorite tv show is Sesame Street and I think this year she appreciated meeting the characters more than years past.  She kept trying to jump out of her chair to go up and greet them - it was the cutest thing!  Julia brought her baby doll this year so she could introduce her to Sesame Place and both girls were treated to some special gifts by Aunt Mary Lou (thanks so much!!!)!

Julia has become unusually attached to her Snufalufagus doll and is using him as a stand-in for Puppy on our outings.  Puppy is her most favorite stuffed animal and we don't let her take him places for fear of leaving him behind (a good rule implemented only after numerous late night searches that included car rides to locate Puppy).  Emma loves her Zoe doll and wants to hold her in the car.  She looks around for her when she is put in her car seat and when we ask her does she want Zoe Yes/No she always answers yes and makes happy sounds and movements when Zoe appears!  She picked an Abby Cadabby doll as her vacation memento last year and it seems like Zoe is becoming more of a favorite than Abby.

Sesame Place has a few rides but a lot of climbing and gross motor areas.  The park is very accessible and wheelchair friendly, but if you can't walk it's hard to participate in many of the rides.  The nice thing is that there are a lot of shows/mini plays that happen throughout the park and a large parade at closing time.  We arrived around noon this year and stayed through the parade.  We didn't see any shows because we did do a couple of rides, the bounce mat area and met some characters and since the park was so crowded these each took a bit of time.  Aunt Mary Lou suggested an area for us to camp out close to parade time and the seats were perfect!  The girls really enjoyed watching the parade and having the characters do their musical dances right in front of them.

Thanks so much to Sesame Place, Variety, and all the volunteers that made this weekend possible!  We truly are so lucky to have the opportunity to enjoy a great day out with our family.

School News

Today Chris and I are feeling really good about the school decisions we made for both Julia and Emma.  As a parent it is hard to know if we are making the right choices and it's wonderful to have a day when you can sit back, take a deep breath, and know that for now we are exactly where we are meant to be.

The future is so bright, she has to wear shades!

Chris and I had our first parent teacher conferences for Julia, making it our first parent teacher conference ever (because there is no way that I'm counting the endless hours in IEP meetings for Emma as a parent teacher conference)!  I'm happy to say that they seem to love her almost as much as we do!   They see the same sweet, genuine, caring, brightness that we see in Julia and are thrilled to have her in their class.  Julia has been in kindergarten 37 days to date.  Her teachers showed us her journal with her writing from day 1 to now and it is striking how mature it is getting after only 37 days.  There is punctuation, capitalization, spaces between words now where it didn't exist on day one.  She is on track for many of her pre-literacy and math skills, participates readily in all the class activities, and has many friends.  They described how Julia plays with others, the activities she enjoys (dramatic play tops the list), and the unique qualities she brings to her class.  It was wonderful to hear more about her school life from people who have been brought into Julia's world only recently.  As I said to her teachers, Julia was born with a great heart and compassion and we can't take the credit for that but we are truly honored to get to raise her as our daughter.

Since it was parent teacher conferences, Julia had the day off from school and joined me to drop Emma off at school.  It was her first time seeing Emma's school and she was so happy about it!  Miss Anna (Emma's teacher), Miss Marie (Emma's aide), and many of Emma's therapists put out a warm welcome to Julia.  Emma was smiling from ear to ear, too, while Julia toured her classroom, saw the equipment she uses, met her teachers and therapists and friends, and walked the school halls.  Julia often wonders about Emma's time away from her and always has a lot of questions about Emma's school.  It was so nice to be able to show her what Emma's day is like so she could put faces and places to my descriptions of Emma's daily routine.

As is typical, Emma rode the school bus home and Julia liked seeing Emma's bus and meeting her bus driver and driver's aide.  My parents were here, too, since I was at Julia's school for the conference.  Emma was delighted to see everyone waiting for her arrival!  This child loves people and having her grandparents and sister greet her at the bus likely put the biggest smile on her face.


When I got home I looked in her communication book so I could ask her about her day and saw this note from her speech language therapist:

• "Emma did a great job using the DynaVox (AAC device) in the classroom to make song choices.  I have hand puppets for some of the songs that she likes to sing.  We sang 5 Green & Speckled Frogs on Tuesday with hand puppets (which she loved!).  She went right to that choice and used her hand switch to select it.  I looked in my bag and realized I forgot the frog hand puppets (oops!).  Then I told Emma "I don't have the frogs today, but I do have Twinkle, Twinkle and Old McDonald."  Before I could look up to help her make the choice, Emma used the DynaVox to say Twinkle, Twinkle!!! She is doing so well :-)"

Our big girl is going places (with her communication!).

Wow!  I have tears in my eyes writing this now.  This is only the 2nd time Emma has used the DynaVox ever and the first time in the classroom with all the kids in the room.  And Emma wanted to communicate!  She wanted to play the games.  She wanted to use the DynaVox to tell her SLP what song to sing.  And, the 5 Green & Speckled Frogs is the 6th choice out of 6.  Emma had to use the head switch 6 times to get to that choice and then use her hand to select it.  The DynaVox she uses is with switches, not eye gaze yet.  The fact that she has figured out how to use this system after only ever seeing it for 2 times give me so much hope for her expressive communication options.  Chris and I are 100% sure we made the right choice in moving - it's amazing how a different approach to communication can open our child's world.  


Tonight we will rest a bit easier knowing we are exactly where we are meant to be and that is not something we take for granted.

Halloween Adventures

What a fun halloween we had!  Julia dressed up as a bunny and Emma was Cinderella and then we headed out for some trick or treating fun.  This year there was snow on the ground - our first white halloween! - but much of it had melted and the weather was in the high 40s so it turned out to be a nice night for the children.

Our neighborhood is filled with children and all the kids on our block huddled up for a photo before heading out to trick or treat in our large group.  They were so excited running door to door for candy and mostly remembered their manners.  A handful of houses had haunted porches and the kids just loved it!  I thought Julia would be scared but she held her own in the group and had a ball.  Emma was thrilled to see all the children running around and not as interested in the candy gathering as last year.  I forgot to bring her iPad programmed with Trick or Treat (like we did last year) and I considered going back to get it but decided against it - with so much action, lights, and kids there was no way that Emma would even look at her iPad let alone use it to say Trick or Treat.

Our candy bags overflowed with all kids of goodies.  I think it must weigh 5 pounds.  Tonight we'll go through it and select some to keep and then donate the rest.

Happy Halloween!