We are fully immersed with life! Is that a fancy way of saying we are busy or what??!!!
Emma has been getting glowing reports from school since Spring Break. I mean, it is a bit ridiculous how good they are and I'm actually getting calls with the therapists so excited about her progress that they just have to call and tell me rather than write it in her communication notebook. They really are that excited and I'm actually taking time to bask in the glow of the good reports! I don't get them too often and I have noticed that they usually come after long breaks from school....so Emma's refusal to do anything that seemed like a bit of physical work during Spring Break seems to be paying off in dividends. That's my girl!
We are still in tour mode of schools for Emma's kindergarten and likely her elementary school education. We have a couple more tours and evaluations lined up and then I guess we'll meet with our school district to discuss our thoughts before we as a team decide her placement. I do think it will be a hard decision, though, with pros and cons to the various placements. We might even wind up with a hybrid plan since the district seems very open to creating an education placement specifically for Emma that addresses our wants for Emma. Stay tuned for further details.
At school Julia attended an assembly for a movie about a child in a wheelchair and his friend who could walk. Julia didn't mention it to me until the school told me about it and so I asked her to tell me about the movie. She told me it was about a boy in a wheelchair who didn't have a ramp to get outside his house and play in the yard so when his friend came over to ask him to play he couldn't. The friend then got some wood and built a ramp so the child in the wheelchair could leave the porch and wheel down to the yard to play. Julia liked that the friend helped but didn't really comment on the wheelchair. I took this opportunity to ask her some questions about what she thought about having a sister in a wheelchair. She told me that she doesn't think Emma minds using a wheelchair and I agreed with her. She then told me she loves having a sister in a wheelchair because Emma wins lots of prizes and she shares them with the family. I didn't understand this so Julia told me that Emma gets to go to lots of amusement parks, special rides on the Blimp, tickets to Disney on Ice and that it's just great because she always lets Julia go with her! So there you have it - I'm so glad I asked ;-)
As for us, well, Chris is glad to be back at work in his normal routine after a week long stint at jury duty and I've been doing a lot of spring cleaning and still have a long ways to go. It keeps getting cut short because of all the insurance calls (appeals in progress for the powerchair denials...), kindergarten legwork and visits along with the never ending sea of paperwork that I try and fit into the few days a week where I have a few hours without children around. Plus I'm trying to purge a lot of our possessions and it just isn't going as easy as I thought because it seems I have a proclivity to want to hang on to things that I'm not longer using for "just in case." Maybe it's time to watch an episode of Hoarders to kick me into high gear? Knowing that we will eventually move again keeps me from moving this task to the bottom of my to do list where I would like it.
It is with sadness that I tell you sweet Gavin earned his angel wings. RIP our little superhero. Our prayers are with your family.